I shared with my son and the friend that, if we still have resentment, complaint, helpless feeling, victim feeling or frustration wherever we see our parents or intimate partner, who have anger with someone,or during their own arguments, we will imprint into our subconscious mind, accusation causes shadow, negative belief, and hidden trauma, which easily cast to people around , bosses, colleagues, intimate friends, families, relationship issues are inevitable.
My exp. is to get rid of the uncomfortable feeling, emotion, not being enrolled is to separate Emotion with persons, to see intention and human nature , most of the time, it is from LOVE, Kindness behind the irrational behaviors. But behavior is driven by emotion, that is not the wholeness of a person.So i can have a peaceful mind,forgive people,and understand the scene behind people arguments , just like dream interpretation and dream healing process.
I use personal stories to interpret dreams, use collective subconscious mind , people wisdom to do dream analysis. Narrative therapy with forgiving stories is used often in my therepeutical practice.
This is called forgiving process, i gave this a name.
Forgiving is very powerful.
i learnt this from my parents originally, and some deep experiences from people and myself always inspire me to move forward because of forgiveness.
As i often have been forgiven by people around me, like you.
So i am empowered by people who forgive me as well.
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Arguments sometimes make problems clearly understood, people intention to solve problems is the key.
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