Showing posts with label sickness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sickness. Show all posts

Monday, July 6, 2015

一本令病人振奮的書 !



最近,一位長期失眠、獨居的親友患了重病,我去看她幾次,知道她喜歡看愛情小說, 很少看勵志的

書,於是三天前我帶了華山<無我抗爭>的書給她。告訴她,“也許,這部書才是你最好的藥,可以讓你有

力量,你的精神良藥,精神糧食,務必讀呀!”


昨晚去看她,她异常興奮的告訴我,“太好看了!寫的太好了!我看了六次之多!”

我知道她一定會看,曾經在兩年前的“天堂宴”,我邀請她來參加,她對華山有很好的印象。


我問她為什麼好看?她幾乎可以將書中人物痛苦的片段和華山的豐富經歷一五一十  地講出來。她說,

很有feel,因為她也經歷過这些童年困難的日子,有一種“大家都是這樣長大的”感覺,帶來很多集體回

憶,喚起她幾十年被壓抑的記憶。


我心想,一個平时對心理、心靈書籍没有兴趣的人,還可以在病魔的折騰中,看六次這本書,很不容易!

定有些東西是她很需要的。


雖然她只述訴書中的一些事情,不講感受,也不谈學到什麼,自己可以做些什麼,帶來什麼反思…… 但我

看的出,一個長期壓抑自己的她,不論是不懂或者壓根不想講出來,這本書已經開始給她帶來從沒有過的

悅,一些啟發和力量,特別是面對自己疾病的能量!面對死亡的力量!



這一晚,她終於說出她患的病,生死關頭,和我估計的一樣。我突然想哭,但她聲音、面孔顯露出驚人的

平靜,好像是在說別人的病情,與她無關。也許,是這本書,開始讓她打開了她自己的一點心菲,給了她

一些勇氣,不想讓自己長期壓抑下去。


但以前不講出來,也許是不想讓我們擔心,或還沒有接受這個事實…


我很後悔沒有早些給她看。


潛意識的力量驚人!我再次感受到每個人都有自我療癒的能力,不論憂鬱多深,早年的創傷、怨恨多大,

沉淪多久,一本好書,就像是一位貼身的老師,可以温暖一個冰封的心,慢慢令人與自己的身體和情感連

接,學習寬恕。找到心靈上的安慰,安頓和面對生死挑戰的那份平靜。


這本書不僅是做生命工作者的工具書,也同時是每一個朋友心靈寶庫,華山的感人經歷和理念,教我們如

何面對困境,恐懼,活出自在,夢想的自己。每個人一定可以從中得到啟發和成長!


這本書,給我的親友帶來無比的溫暖和親切感,猶如久旱逢甘露。我還沒看過她如此開懷?真摯的去表達

讚美!


我內心的感動、感激,不能用言語表達。


如果你也有親友在病床,急需正能量,請送上這本心靈的良藥吧!也将給照顧病人的家屬很大的支持和力

量。



我会和她一起討論這本書,陪伴病中的親友走過這段艱難日子。終點不知道,但當下是更重要。

華山的<無我抗爭>給我力量。學習面對死亡和疾病。學習愛惜自己。



我會將這本好書寄給在遠方的父母和弟妹,親友们!

Friday, February 13, 2015

The Body Knows How To Heal Itself

3-2-2015
Our group is full of warmth, love and support. I posted my reflection on sickness today and immediately people came up with lots of regards and ideas how to turn sickness to advantages for our body healing. Then I read an article with more ideas on how we see our sickness ( attitude) will play more important role on our recovery and longevity. Wonderful article. I appreciate the doctor's view so much and share it to us.

My Body talks: I have been sick this week , serious cold attack for days. Just sleeping and doing a little reading, writing. My favorite things.😄 Interestingly, i am very enjoying feeling my body's feeling.She was angry with me by Pain but now she is much relieved and happier to see I am paying attention to her 😀 Take care, everyone. New year Goat is coming🐑🐑

Flourence D P19

Get well soon🙏🙏
17:00




Miu Tina Friend Dream work

Take care💝
17:11

Louisa Chan DP COACH

Glad that you hear your body talks.  Take care Donna 😘
17:40
yeah, sickness is our friends.🌈
17:44

Jenny heung Dp 24 Teacher

Really relieving to feel the care and gentleness to inner self. Thx Donna's sharing🙏
18:42
yes, our inner self is communicating with us every minute, listening to it, feeling peaceful🙏👂❤
21:52
FEBRUARY 13, 2015

Karen Wong

Our body got his own consciousness, we can ask our body " what do you need " ?
08:10
yeah, it tells me Mind my body, connect with it.listen to it. It has answer for healing already🙏❤👂😀
11:02







6 Steps To Healing Yourself
Editor’s note
 Lissa Rankin of 6 Steps To Healing Yourself.

Take a moment and check in with yourself. How is your body feeling right in this moment? If you’re generally healthy, check in for subtle symptoms. Is your neck feeling tense? Does your lower back ache? Do you have a headache? Are you exhausted — again? Or perhaps you’re battling a more serious health diagnosis and you’re experiencing symptoms from your health condition.
Whether you’re experiencing the nuisance of a minor physical symptom, the more concerning stress of a serious health condition, or simple curiosity about how you might maximize your vitality and longevity, I’m psyched to share with you something they never taught me in medical school.
The Body Knows How To Heal Itself
Your body is beautifully equipped with natural self-repair mechanisms that are under the influence of thoughts, feelings and beliefs that originate in your mind. It knows how to kill cancer cells, fix broken proteins, slow aging, eliminate toxins, fight infections, get rid of foreign bodies, and otherwise keep you healthy. Things go awry and disease manifests when these self-repair mechanisms fail to function properly.
But here’s the kicker. Your nervous system has two operating systems — the “fight-or-flight” stress response dominated by the sympathetic nervous system and the relaxation response run by the parasympathetic nervous system. Only when your nervous system is in a relaxation response do your body’s self-repair mechanisms function!
The stress response is there to protect you in case a tiger chases you. But these days, we’re pretty safe from tigers, and yet our stress responses get triggered, on average, over 50 times per day. How? The amygdala in your lizard brains perceives negative thoughts, beliefs, and feelings, such as financial fears, relationship worries, work stress, loneliness, or pessimism, as threats equally scary as a tiger. Then BOOM. The scaredy-cat amygdala goes on red alert, and when this happens, our bodies can’t repair themselves. No wonder we get sick!
6 Simple Steps To Activate Your Body’s Self-Repair Mechanisms

You don’t have to be at the mercy of your stress responses. As I teach in my new book Mind Over Medicine: Scientific Proof That You Can Heal Yourself, you can be proactive about activating your body’s natural self-healing. Try these scientifically-proven steps as a health prevention strategy or as treatment for any health condition you might be battling.
Step 1: Believe You Can Heal Yourself
Don’t believe that positive belief can cure the body? Think again! The medical establishment has been proving that the mind can cure the body for over 50 years. We call it “the placebo effect,” and it has been proven to cause resolution of symptoms- and real physiological change — in 18-80% of the patients in clinical trials who are treated with nothing more than sugar pills, saline injections, or fake surgeries.
As long as you believe your condition is “incurable” or “chronic,” it will be. Don’t believe your health condition could possibly resolve? Check out theSpontaneous Remission Project, a compilation of over 3,500 case studies proving that spontaneous remission has been reported for just about every illness out there- Stage 4 cancers, HIV, diabetes, high blood pressure, thyroid disease, autoimmune diseases, even an untreated gunshot wound to the head!
For my skeptical physician mind, reading through all these case studies was a paradigm shift. It’s kind of like the story of the 4-minute mile. Exercise physiologists used to think the body was physiologically incapable of running a mile in less than 4 minutes — and so no athlete ever did it. Then in 1954, Roger Bannister ran a mile in three minutes and fifty-nine seconds. Once that limiting belief was shattered, virtually every athlete that competes in a world-class event has run the mile in under four minutes. Today’s world-record time for the mile is 3:43:15, more than 15 seconds under 4 minutes.
What if your belief that the body can’t heal itself is like the 4-minute mile? For some mind-blowing stories about how positive belief can radically affect your health, watch my TEDx talk Is There Scientific Proof That You Can Heal Yourself?.
Scientific data proves that once you believe healing is possible, it can be. So what do you believe?
Step 2: Find The Right Support
To say that you can heal yourself is sort of a misnomer because the scientific data proves that, equally essential to positive belief is the nurturing care of a true healer, someone optimistic who shares your positive belief, includes you in true partnership, respects your intuition, cares for your wellbeing, and ensures you that you won’t be alone on your self-healing journey.
Do you have the right healers on your health care team?
Step Three: Listen To Your Body & Your Intuition
Nobody knows your body better than you, not even a doctor. We doctors may know the arteries of the leg or the anatomy of your organs better than you, but you know what’s best for your own body better than anyone else. When my literary agent first read Mind Over Medicine, she said, “Lissa, before I read this book, I honestly thought my body was none of my business. Now I know better.”
Yes! Your body is indeed your business. So listen to your intuition and trust what it tells you.
Not in touch with your intuition? Then listen to your body, which is one vehicle your intuition uses to speak to you. If you have a physical sensation in your body — pain, tightness, nausea, clenching, dizziness — ask your body what it is trying to communicate to you. Then listen up! This is the voice of your inner wisdom and it will always lead you directly to your true north.
Step Four: Diagnose The Root Causes Of Your Illness
Your doctor may give you one kind of diagnosis- migraines or irritable bowel syndrome or breast cancer, for example. But the kind of diagnosis I’m talking about gets at the root of what might have triggered stress responses in your body and deactivated your body’s self-healing mechanisms, thereby making your body vulnerable to illness.
What aspects of your life are activating your stress responses? What relaxation response-inducing activities — like meditation, creative expression, laughter, engaging in work you love, massage, yoga, or playing with animals — have you been neglecting?
Illness is often a wake up call, forcing us to get down and dirty with what’s really true in our lives. We can either play the victim or we can use illness as an opportunity to awaken.
If you’re struggling with a physical issue, what might lie at the root of it? For more ideas about what might lie at the root of your illness, check out my TEDx talk The Shocking Truth About Your Health.
Step Five: Write The Prescription For Yourself
This won’t be the kind of prescription you fill at a pharmacy, though it certainly may include elements of Western medicine. It’s more of a self-guided action plan intended to make your body ripe for optimal health and full recovery.
So ask yourself, “What does my body need in order to heal?” Your Prescription may include diet changes, an exercise regimen, and a conventional medical treatment plan. But it may also include getting out of a toxic relationship, quitting a soul-sucking job, adding a meditation practice, taking steps to get out of debt, or following a passion.
Be as specific as you can. Then muster up the courage to put your plan into action!
Step Six: Surrender Attachment To Outcomes
What if you’ve adopted a positive attitude, found the right healer, tapped into your intuition and your body, diagnosed the root cause of your health condition, written The Prescription for yourself and put it into action- but you’re still sick? Are you doing something wrong? Is it your fault you’re still sick?
Absolutely not — and any talk of guilt, blame, or shame for someone on a healing journey only activates more stress responses and harms the body.
So what’s the deal? This is where the art of surrender comes in. Some patients do everything “right” and spontaneous remission happens. But others are the proverbial choir- and they’re still sick. Why does this happen? Honestly, I don’t know. The only real answer is a spiritual one. Perhaps our souls come here on this earth to learn lessons, and illness can be a spiritual practice, a way to learn our life lessons and a part of our soul’s destiny.
What I can say is that if you’ve followed the 6 steps, you’ve done everything within your power to make your body ripe for miracles — and the rest is out of your hands. So take a deep breath, trust The Universe, surrender attachment to any particular health outcome, and let any health condition you face be an opportunity for spiritual awakening.
Ready To Heal Yourself?
Are you motivated to put each of these steps into action? Will you do what it takes to reduce stress responses in your body and increase relaxation responses so your body can repair itself?
Read more from Lissa Rankin, MD on her blog, LissaRankin.com, where you can download the free eBook 10 Secrets to Healing Yourself. Her book Mind Over Medicine: Scientific Proof That You Can Heal Yourself, offers all the scientific proof skeptics will need in order to believe the mind really can heal the body. It also guides you through a series of exercises to help you implement the 6 Steps To Healing Yourself so you can make your body ripe for miracles.


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