Showing posts with label how to see life. Show all posts
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Tuesday, June 14, 2022

村上春樹的墓志銘 - 我至少跑到了最後

 Updated 2 5 2024 


我學到:

做人不可能完美,堅持把自己變成
完美的過程更重要,
成長比成就更重要。


村上春樹的金句,發人深省,想起家裡還有他的書 

他的書《跑步時學到什麼?做了什麼?》,寫出他的心聲。

村上春樹不僅是一名著名的作家,而且是一名長跑選手。

從他的書中,我學到:做人不可能完美,堅持把自己變成完美的過程更重要,成長比成就更重要。

 不老是樂觀的心態,是正向的自尊,不會因為身體健康,年齡大小所影響。村上春樹到世界各地參加馬拉松和鐵人賽,在他的2007年自傳式的書“我跑步時說了些什麼”裡,最後寫道:

假如有我的墓誌銘,而且上面的文字可以自己選擇,我願意它是這麼寫的:

村上春樹作家

1949.20xx

他至少是跑到了最後

Inspired by 村上春樹 的墓誌銘:

我寫出我的墓誌銘

https://www.donnadreamhypnosis.com/2019/05/to-be-remembered_7.html

To be remembered 

I am never gone.

I am the fresh wind blowing in the autumn trees.

I am the warm sunlight glinting on the winter sea.

I am a little bird chirping in the spring flowers.

I am a shining star blinking in the summer night.

I will never die,  I am in your heart,

In your arms, in the Heaven of LOVE.

我從來沒有離開過。

我是秋天樹上吹來的清新微風;

我是冬日海面上閃爍的溫暖陽光。

我是春天花叢中鳴叫的快樂小鳥。

我是夏夜裏閃爍的一顆星星。

我永遠沒有走,我在你心裡,

在你的懷裡,在愛的天堂。



Reference:

生命的精彩在于....楊絳的故事







楊絳逝世:她像一滴水融化在海中


然而,生離死別的痛楚總是接踵而至:1997 年,被楊絳稱為 “ 我平生唯一傑作 ” 的愛女錢瑗去世,1998 年,錢鍾書闔然長逝。丈夫與愛女接連離世,對楊絳的打擊可想而知。 “ 鍾書逃走了,我也想逃走,但是逃到哪裡去呢?我壓根兒不能逃,得留在人世間,打掃現場,盡我應盡的責任。” 彼時近 90 高齡的楊絳沒有棄世,沒有消沉,她繃緊人生之弦,在人生夕陽晚霞中迸發出燦爛的生命之光。


杨绛先生的最后岁月:从容不迫,不让时光白白流过

楊絳如何面對死亡的來臨?體現她優雅闊達的人生態度


今年春節,楊先生是在醫院度過的。舊曆大年初一,我去協和探視,床前坐坐,聊聊家常。末了楊先生又交代幾件後事。我心悲痛,不免戚戚;楊先生卻幽幽地說,她走了,那是回家!要我“別太難過,沒準兒以後我們還能在天上再聚聚吶!”




13 6 2022


Monday, February 1, 2016

What I learnt from the MOVIE - STEVE JOBS (2015) (2)

我從電影 STEVE JOBS (2015)學到什么?

Both Sides, Now, that is life!

在Steve Jobs (2015)電影中,

有一段女兒Lisa和父親Steve對話,令人難忘。

對話是關於 Both Sides, NOW這首歌的討論。


一個六歲的小女孩,竟然對這首歌 –生命的探討感興趣,最感人的是,Lisa 对后悔人生  REGRETFUL的看法:
Wish to go back and do it differently! 

Steve was soo surprised and it must be a profound  lesson his daughter had given him. He must be so proud of his daughter paying so much attention to him and could understood about the insight of the song!

其實,很多的孩子, 都有這個能力!

以下是我從電影和這首歌中的學習:

什麼是夢想?什麼是渴望?

成長過程中,对夢想的憧憬,愛情的渴望

以為一切都如童话般美好!

當期望和結果,付出和收穫不成正比,

我們會有迷惘或詛喪;

或有懷疑和放棄的念頭。

Both sides, Now!

“ REALITY IS DISTORTED BY OURSELVES.”

As the Movie said

当被自己的幻覺所蒙蔽,

掉進自設的心理陷進!

一切都關乎自己怎樣看待自己。



Both Sides, NOW!

原來,生命何止兩個面!

暴雨後有彩虹!

寒冬也有溫暖的陽光照耀!

擁抱內在生命的春夏秋冬,哪怕生老病死

擁抱自己的情緒,就算喜怒哀樂

變幻才是永恆:一起都只不過是過程!

笑看風雲

珍惜陽光,

人自然會自在、放鬆、舒暢!

潛能就能盡情發放!



Both Sides, Now

看待生命,不同角度,

 這首歌帶來深刻的反思!

明白生命就是探索,

沒人天生就知道自己的路向圖!

每天都要調效自己的態度,

提升自己的心理質素!

If we can do it again, do it differently!


Both Sides, Now

再次問自己:

什麼是生命?

生命就是無盡的探索!

當我們找到生命的價值,

我們就會為自己的夢想,

我們就會為自己的渴望,

將所有困難,轉化為生命成長的樂土!



Both sides, NOW!

再次問自己:

什麼是夢想?什麼是渴望?

夢想是邁向理想的過程中,

有很多困難要面對,

也讓你感到幸福的東西。

渴望是邁向理想的過程中,

有一股熱情,

日日夜夜讓你著迷,

从不厭倦地去做!



每個人都有夢想,不論來至白日夢,還是睡覺夢

但不是每個人都敢於分享夢!

那些敢於分享夢想的人,

必須有passion,渴望和熱情!

那些敢於實踐夢想的人,

必須有無限的 stamina,堅持力!

正是這些渴望、熱情和不折不撓的信念,

讓理想的路可以堅持下去。

讓理想的種子開花結果!

REF:



http://www.lyricsfreak.com/j/joni+mitchell/both+sides+now_20075289.html
Rows and flows of angel hair 
And ice cream castles in the air
And feather canyons everywhere, 
I've looked at clouds that way.

But now they only block the sun, 
They rain and they snow on everyone
So many things I would have done, 
But clouds got in my way.

I've looked at clouds from both sides now
From up and down and still somehow
It's cloud illusions I recall

I really don't know clouds at all

Moons and Junes and Ferris wheels, 
The dizzy dancing way that you feel
As every fairy tale comes real, 
I've looked at love that way. 

But now it's just another show, 
You leave 'em laughing when you go
And if you care, don't let them know, 
Don't give yourself away. 

I've looked at love from both sides now 
From give and take and still somehow
It's love's illusions I recall

I really don't know love at all

Tears and fears and feeling proud, 
To say "I love you" right out loud
Dreams and schemes and circus crowds, 
I've looked at life that way.

Oh but now old friends they're acting strange, 
They shake their heads, they say I've changed
Well something's lost, but something's gained 
In living every day.

I've looked at life from both sides now
From win and lose and still somehow
It's life's illusions I recall

I really don't know life at all

I've looked at life from both sides now 
From up and down, and still somehow 
It's life's illusions I recall 

I really don't know life at all

It's life's illusions I recall
I really don't know life
I really don't know life at all
Songwriters: MITCHELL, JONI
Both Sides, Now lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Crazy Crow Music / Siquomb Music Publishing