Sunday, October 29, 2017

Don't take it personally

当别人说一些难听的话,令人不开心的话,我们自己是否会enrolled, hurt, 把自己打入冷宫 
( you don't have to be arse) all depends on our state of mind: you don't have to be hurt, it is not your experience, your world, it is their world, not yours.or don't take it personally.

当我们明白别人背后的故事,心理状态,成长经历,我们就可以不被enrolled,反而会更有同理心和慈悲去达到和解,和睦。

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