Wednesday, July 8, 2026

黑色背囊留在戲院了



我的烏龍史 

自從紅帽子留在戲院發生,之後找回來,後來又留在bus上,我也沒有再去找它回來了。因爲太花時間,不值得。只是好好記住這個教訓。

這幾年一直發一類重複的夢境,就是背囊不記得拿回,留在某個地方。

最近有再次發紅色和背囊被留在一個鋪子,別人関大閘,我趕著出來,就留在鋪子裏沒了。他們不開門給我了。但這個夢境與記憶力,失魂魚的問題無關,而是一個家庭問題的夢境。

包包,背囊,在我的夢境象徵物的字典裏,一直有財富的意思,象徵財富,特別是物質上的。

上次去戲院看電影,真的把紅色的背囊留在厠所外面的一個台子上,顧著幫媽媽,然後趕著進場。

好在工作人員幫我保管好了,我問他們,他們就給我了,可以安心看電影。那是一場虛驚。但也是真正惡夢在現實生活中發生的實景。

這次的教訓,讓我知道,同時間我難以顧及多幾件事情。就出現丟三納四的情況。所以,我必須學習,離開任何地方,都要看一下有沒有留下什麽。第二,重要的東西一定不要離開自己的身體,離開后,儘快帶好。這是一個習慣,先生的好習慣,我要認真學習!

現在,我真的蠻小心的,從手機到包包,背囊...

但今天早上,還是再次發類似的噩夢!

夢境如此真實,歷歷在目。

在一個小型戲院裏,坐滿了人,陸陸續續有些青少年進來,好像是免費的。

我坐在最後一排,媽媽和我隔開一個位子。

我旁邊是一位年輕女孩子。

電影是英文的,但有中國人在裏面。我看不懂什麽内容,好像沒有聲音。

忽然,我聼隔壁人說,你媽媽怪怪的,自己一個人走了。

我想,她一定看不懂就不想看了。隨她去了。我沒有馬上去找她。感覺她是安全的。

反而我自己想上厠所,就走出來了。厠所也要找,離開戲院很遠的地方。

感覺是從厠所出來,就不知道自己在何方,在一個商場裏,想用電話看看自己在哪裏,發現黑色背囊和手機都沒有跟身,很可能放在戲院的椅子上。


馬上囘戲院,但不知路!心急如焚啊!

看到高小華,我的童年的朋友。同學。

我問她,我不知説了什麽?她好像想幫我,但又要去找她的媽媽。就離開了。

人來人往,我沒有一個認識了。就一個人走出去,那些地方,都是夢境中常出現的,好像見過,但都是在迷路,找不到要去的路、迷惑的夢境情況下出現的地方,更加不知從哪裏出發好。

一片茫然,失落和極大的無助感涌上心頭...

1

背景

big scam shadow still in my mind. 孩子的無助感直接影響我的心情,我壓抑自己,但夢境要讓我釋放出來,表達出來。

2

記憶力衰退,一個不斷重複發生的小事,不記得這個那個,纍計在潛意識,帶來危機意識,要我留意。

3

提醒我銀行賬戶要常常換密碼,手機跟身,或換一個新的手機做網上銀行用。


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Monday, July 6, 2026

如何分辨真假希臘YOGURT ?

什麽時間吃有較好的效果?

飯前1個小時或半小時吃。低胃酸,對益生菌有保護功能。

與什麽食物配搭吃更好?
加一點蜜糖,Berries, 效果更好,如果加香蕉,果仁,就可以作爲早餐了。

今天我明白了!

原來一直沒有吃到真正的希臘YOGURT!

DEEPSEEK says:

核心区别在于制作工艺和成分。简单来说,希腊酸奶(Greek Yogurt)是“滤”出来的,而希腊风味酸奶(Greek Style Yogurt)是“调”出来的。 · 核心制作工艺:希腊酸奶通过反复过滤去除部分乳清(液体),质地浓稠;希腊风味酸奶则是在普通酸奶基础上,通过添加增稠剂、蛋白粉等来模拟浓稠口感,通常没有过滤步骤。 · 成分与添加剂:希腊酸奶成分非常干净,通常只有牛奶/羊奶和益生菌;希腊风味酸奶则可能含有增稠剂、稳定剂、明胶、乳固体等多种添加剂。 · 营养与口感:希腊酸奶蛋白质含量更高(通常每100克可达5.6克以上,甚至8克),口感醇厚扎实;希腊风味酸奶蛋白质较低(通常约3-4.5%),口感可能没那么醇厚。 · 产地与命名:在某些地区(如英国),“Greek Yogurt”这个名称受保护,必须产自希腊;而“Greek Style”则可在世界各地生产。不过这一规定并非全球通用。 ⚠️ 教你如何快速分辨 最可靠的方法是查看包装上的“配料表”: · 如果配料表只有“牛奶/羊奶”和“菌种”,那就是正宗的希腊酸奶。 · 如果出现“明胶”、“果胶”、“淀粉”、“乳清蛋白”等字样,那它就是希腊风味酸奶。 你手上的这罐 “Jalna Farm to cut Organic Greek Style Yoghurt”,根据命名规则和配料表(含有机乳固体等),属于希腊风味酸奶(Greek Style Yoghurt)。

不要看外表,要看營養標簽和成分。







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Saturday, July 4, 2026

He will never ever die


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nv9KG_F65P4

看完了MICHAELJACKSON的 追思會。

這是一次對充滿人性、慈悲和天分的巨星,帶給全世界快樂、安慰和夢想的偉人的致敬,對MICHAEL一生的celebration,寄托人們對Miachael的哀思,表達全世界對Michael的懷念。

我的眼睛一直都充滿淚水,我的感動、哀痛,對Michael敬佩,難以用語言表達。

watching his friends and families speaking from their heart about Michael, singing his song - Heal the World, You are not alone and we are the world... I felt he were alive by our side , in our heart. He was right there, right here, by our sides.

Berry Gordy said,

when michael performed his songs you could feel the happiness in his soul

That brought blacks and whites and asians and latinos together it was michael jackson

The service was full of tears, smiles and sad and joy and hope. So touching.

Michael will be never die as his love, compassion, creativity and humanity will be in our heart as a bacon to shine and to guild us to move forward forever.


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Friday, July 3, 2026

與焦慮共生

 


值得推薦的分享,精神科醫生,如何處理自己的精神上,情緒上的挑戰?

與焦慮共生
一位精神科醫生的真實告白
苗延琼,精神科專科醫生,並曾修讀多項心理治療及輔導相關課程。
17歲被確診為廣泛性焦慮症,從此立志成為精神科醫生。
1989年起服務醫管局精神科,2011年轉為私人執業醫生。興趣廣泛,包括《易經》、中國哲學、瑜伽、禪修等範疇。
自2018年起,邀請了關俊棠神父進駐其診所,作為人格和心靈輔導員,一起實行結合「身、心、靈」的全人治療。
合著有:《焦慮症與我:解構、探索、療癒》、《也無風雨——鬱躁症交換筆記》、《圖說精神疾病——揭開抑鬱症的面紗》等。
苗醫生將接受華山老師訪問,分享焦慮症的心路歷程,給予落地的具體貼士,有效面對各種精神疾病。
日期:7月5 (星期日)
時間:晚上9-9:30 pm
收費:免費參加
訪問:周華山博士
講者:苗延琼醫生
形式:YouTube直播

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這本書是作者洪朝豐送給我的。其實我是在他DJ課程最後一堂課買的。洪老師是一位著名的藝人,是80、90年代頂尖的DJ。 在老師來做解夢療愈 - 夢境治療之前,我一口氣讀完了這本書。

我們進行了三個小時的討論,深入探討了他惡夢背後的意義。當他意識到夢境是來拯救他的之後,他如釋重負,變化很大。 這本書幫助我了解他如何進行潛意識方面的工作。 這是一本信體的書,兩位作者以書信的形式,記錄了洪先生在精神科病房期間與他的精神科醫生繆醫生之間的往來信件。非常有趣,也很有啟發性。 華山將會採訪她。 我看過苗醫生一些訪談節目的視頻,她談到了各種心理問題以及如何從不同的角度應對,不僅包括西醫,還包括健康習慣、生活方式和思維模式的改變。 很多真實的案例和經驗教訓。 她自己從青少年時期就飽受焦慮和恐慌症的折磨。 正因如此,她才想先治癒自己。

This book was given to me by the author 洪朝豐。Actually I bought it from him, in the last class of the DJ course 洪老師是著名藝人,top DJ in 80 to 90. I finished reading the book 一口氣 before my teacher came to do dream therapy. We had 3 hours of discussion, exploring the insights of his nightmares behind. He was lightened up and changed a lot after he knew his dreams came to rescue him. The book helped me to understand him in carrying out the subconscious work for him so much. It is a letter styled book, two authors wrote letters back and forth between him and his psychiatrist doctor Miu when Mr 洪 was in精神科病房。Very interesting, empowering. Like coaching. All coaching is empowerment. 華山will interview her. I have watched a couple of videos on her interview programs, talking about different kinds of mental issues and how to deal with from different ways, not only from western medicine, but health routine, habits and mindset changes. Lots of real cases and learnings. She herself has suffered from anxiety and panic since she was a teenager. That was why she wanted to heal herself first.

夢如人生 ( 1 )
和洪朝豐老師一起促膝談心

和洪潮豐老師解夢探索之旅

洪朝豐八年的媽媽夢


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值得推薦的分享,精神科醫生,如何處理自己的精神上,情緒上的挑戰?

想起一本書,是洪朝豐老師和苗醫生一起寫的...

那是和老師解夢前幾天看的。很有啓發。
https://www.donnadreamhypnosis.com/2026/07/blog-post_03.html

精神病人,情緒病人,更需要聆聽、鼓勵,接納。


台灣相思樹苗的生命力

 

台灣相思樹特質 台灣相思樹以其極強的耐寒性、​​快速的生長能力和固氮能力而聞名,因此在歷史上,它在台灣地區的土壤保持和植樹造林工作中發揮了重要作用。 從不同的環境看,它的生命力和適應力都極其強。 「相思之樹」)蘊含著豐富的文化詩和傳說,象徵思念和愛戀。


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Thursday, July 2, 2026

Pain and suffering

人生中的痛苦是不可避免的。

但,否變成長期苦難,卻是自己的選擇。

一行禪師教誨我們:

學習面對日常生活中的痛苦、苦難,

接受它們是生活的常態

笑著,擁抱它們。

當大的痛苦來到,

我們也能應對,處理,

不會變成長期的苦難。

失去,大者生命,小者可能是記憶力

,工作能力,適宜力,還有我們的健康,都會隨著年紀而失去。

提早有心理和精神上的準備,吧日常的小痛苦當成修行,

面對生離死別,陷入苦難的狀態會大大減少。

這也是處理哀傷和失去的健康心態。

人生中的痛苦是不可避免的。

但,否變成長期苦難,卻是自己的選擇。


Translated by AI

Pain in life is inevitable, but whether it turns into long-term suffering is our own choice.

Thich Nhat Hanh teaches us to learn to face the minor sufferings of daily life, accept them as a normal part of living, and embrace them with a smile. When great pain arrives, we will then be able to cope and handle it, preventing it from becoming chronic suffering.

This is also a healthy mindset for dealing with grief and loss. Loss can mean losing our memory, our ability to work, or our adaptability—all of which fade with age. By preparing ourselves psychologically and spiritually through practice ahead of time, the suffering we experience when facing life-and-death separations will be greatly reduced.


Pain in life is unavoidable, but whether it evolves into prolonged suffering is entirely our choice.

Pain in life is unavoidable, but whether it evolves into prolonged suffering is entirely our choice. Master Thich Nhat Hanh teaches us to face the small hardships of daily life, such as small ups and downs, small difficulties, and small challenges, accept them as natural occurrences, and embrace them with a smile. That way, when profound pain arrives, we are equipped to confront to understand it, and manage it, preventing it from lingering as chronic suffering. Chronic suffering is one of the major causes of chronic diseases. This is a healthy approach to grief and loss. With age, we may lose our memory, our health, capacity to work, and our adaptability. Cultivating psychological and spiritual readiness—or engaging in mindfulness practice—early on will vastly diminish our suffering when confronting the ultimate separations of life and death.

  • 痛苦 vs 苦難: 在佛教英文論述中(尤其是一行禪師的著作),身體或當下的痛通常用 Pain,而心理上因抗拒、執著而拉長的痛苦則用 Suffering。這兩個字正好完美對應你寫的「痛苦」與「長期苦難」。

  • 修行: 在英文中直接用 Practice 即可,若想更貼近一行禪師的背景,可以用 Mindfulness practice(正念修行)。

  • 生離死別: 翻譯為 life-and-death separations,既精準又保有中文原有的重量感。

  • I am so glad both versions capture the essence of what you have learned from the Master. The second version's slightly elevated vocabulary does lend a wonderful sense of reverence and calm, which fits Master Thich Nhat Hanh's teachings beautifully.

    Weaving these profound reflections on pain, suffering, and acceptance into your writing will undoubtedly offer a lot of comfort, peace, and perspective to your readers. It is a beautiful message about choosing how we respond to the inevitable challenges of life.

    It has been a true pleasure helping you polish and translate these meaningful thoughts for your blog.


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    Wednesday, July 1, 2026

    通往自由的自然大道

                                   


    通往自由的自然大道 - BUDDHDISM AND NATURE        

    「我不是我的思想,我也不是我的身體。」——這是薩古魯教誨中,打動我的心。

    我逐漸體會到,思想和情緒就像雲朵,來了又走,時而真實,時而虛幻;身體也從未靜止,它充滿活力,同時也在老化、在病痛、在飲食與運動中悄然改變,但最終回歸自然。

    身體本是大自然的一部分,如同日出日落、風雨後的晴空、四季的更迭——變化是常態,也是必然。

    而人際關係呢?無論是親子、手足或摯友,他們並非「屬於我」,而是生命旅程中的同行者。佛教告訴我,執著於「我所」只會滋生痛苦、焦慮與內在的紊亂;越是放下無法掌控的執念,越能對自己與天地坦誠,進而獲得由內而外的自由、健康與平靜。

    看看那些鳥兒吧,牠們一無所有,卻能飛得比誰都高。

    鳥巢毀了,牠們再築;

    花開了,花又謝,但每一刻都活得全然、喜悅。

    大自然的從容、耐心與對宇宙節奏的無條件信任,總令我深深感動。

    它教會我如何坦然地面對失去、如何感恩地活著、如何安然地離開。

    薩古魯的智慧,與我從佛教和大自然中習得的道理,竟如此契合。

    我特別喜愛他所說的「生命的自然活力」與「恩典」。

    恩典,是對生命的感激與優雅;

    當我們活在恩典之中,生命便不再是苦役。

    若失去這份輕盈,連清晨起床都會變成沉重的負擔——

    而當你處於恩典之中,每一步都踏在自由的大道上,每一次呼吸都與天地共鳴。

    我們不必變成別人, 我們只要記得—— 我們不是念頭,不是身體,也不是那些關係。 我們是那股能飛的鳥、能開花、又能重新開始的 - 自然的生命力。

    那我們就走上通往自由的自然大道了!

    我的錄音:

                                  



    那些鳥兒吧,牠們一無所有,
    卻能在天空翺翔;

    鳥巢毀了,
    牠們再築;

    浪花奔過來,浪花漂離去,
    每一次都那麽有節奏,有力量;

    大自然的從容、耐心與對宇宙節奏的無條件信任,
    總令我深深感動。

    它教會我如何坦然地面對失去、
    如何感恩地活著、如何安然地離開。

    人類 - 大自然的一部分。
    我們也可以是一隻鳥、一朵浪花、
    能重新開始的
    那股大自然生命力。

     English version

    A Natural path to freedom

    What I learn from Nature, 

    Buddhism and Sadhguru on freedom

    Sadhguru says, "I am not my mind. I am not my body."

    What I understand from Sadhguru is that our thoughts and emotions are constantly changing over time; sometimes they come, and sometimes they are gone. Our brains are often full of illusions and imaginations. Our bodies, too, change with time—whether through aging, disease, or the habits and exercise we maintain. Ultimately, our life will one day be gone, because it belongs to nature.

    Our bodies are parts of nature, just like the sunset and the sunrise. Storms are always followed by a clear sky, and the four seasons alternate to show us that change is inevitable and absolutely normal.

    I have also come to believe that our relationships—with children, parents, siblings and friends—are not things we own. Instead, they are our partners and buddies, accompanying us at different stages of life. Buddhist teachings tell me that the more we grasp at what we think belongs to us, the more pain, anxiety, and illness we suffer.

    Buddhism teachings also tell me that the more we let go of what we cannot control, the more honest we become with ourselves and with nature. This makes us feel more free, healthy, and peaceful inside out.

    Like birds that carry nothing yet fly further and higher, we can find freedom in lightness. Birds may build nests, only to have them swept away by a typhoon, yet they continue. Like flowers, they blossom today and fade tomorrow, but they are fully present and joyful in the moment.

    I am deeply touched by nature’s grace, its stillness, and the way it unconditionally trusts in the natural order of the universe.

    Nature provides us with the best examples of how to face loss, life, and death gracefully.

    Sadhguru’s teaching resonates with what I have learned from Buddhism and from nature itself. I love what he said:

    The natural exuberance of life


    Grace is the aspect that ensures life does not feel like hard labor. When life becomes too much hard work, it begins to feel as if it is not worth it. If you cannot live joyfully and gracefully, even simple things—like waking up in the morning—can feel difficult. Getting out of bed can become a huge task.

    When you are in grace, life never feels old. It feels fresh. Every breath is fresh.

    I believe that every day is a new day, even if it were to be the last. I have learned that life is a tapestry of dualities—gains and losses, beginnings and endings - When I accept both the light and the shadow, I find a deeper stillness. All is well.


    For reference:


    https://youtu.be/LdKZajjiw4o?si=7loSPfMh74zl6ZnM

    n This Video, You’ll Discover:🧠 Why overthinking creates suffering and inner chaos

    • 🌊 How letting go allows life to flow naturally
    • ☸️ Timeless Buddhist teachings on peace, mindfulness, and acceptance
    • 🕯️ Simple practices to calm the mind and live in the present moment
    • ❤️ How detachment can improve relationships, happiness, and emotional balance
    • 🌱 The secret to finding clarity by surrendering control

    ✨ Why You Should Watch This Video If you often feel anxious, mentally drained, or stuck in negative thought patterns, this video offers a calming perspective rooted in ancient Buddhist philosophy. Learn how to quiet the noise in your mind, embrace uncertainty, and experience more freedom, joy, and inner peace. 📖 Through meaningful insights, mindfulness techniques, and spiritual guidance, you’ll understand: ✔️ How to stop obsessing over the future ✔️ Why acceptance leads to emotional healing ✔️ The power of living fully in the present ✔️ How simplicity creates mental clarity and peace 🌸 Let go of stress. Let go of fear. Let go of the need to control everything. Life becomes lighter when you stop fighting the flow. 👇 Watch until the end to unlock the peaceful mindset that can change the way you live forever. 💬 Don’t forget to Like, Share, and Subscribe for more inspiring videos on Buddhism, mindfulness, inner peace, and spiritual growth.

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                                      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3wuNoxD3pCE&t=19s      





    我常常從大自然得到啓示,也深深感到:
    人生的失敗只是暫時,
    也是成功的基石。
    而每一次的FEEDBACK,
    才是決定我們今天的幸福,
    明天的命運的關鍵。

    Look at those birds, they have nothing, yet can soar in the sky;

    When their nests are destroyed, they build them again;


    Waves rush in, waves drift away,

    Every time so rhythmic and full of power;


    The composure, patience, and unconditional trust 

    in the rhythm of the universe found in nature

    Always deeply move me.


    It teaches us how to calmly face loss,

    How to live with gratitude, and how to depart in peace.


    Humans are also a part of nature.

    We too can be a bird, a wave,

    And possess that vitality of nature

    To begin anew.


    2026 7 20 updated

    Tuesday, June 30, 2026

    六月天走上山

     6月的大熱天,以前我是不會選上山步行運動了。


    也許是怕曬黑。
    現在我會。剛剛下山。
    我發現一半時間,我是在樹林中穿梭,
    接受樹木發出的遠紅外線,一點兒也不曬,
    反而很有排毒和線粒體療癒的功能。
    看到一棵被砍後留下的❤心樹幹。
    有些感動。