|2013 12 DP25 Graduation
我深深感受到Red的compassion， understanding and patience, her unconditional support and love in the critical time of my life.
Red 提醒我，要和家人一起，和爸爸道愛，道謝，愛是要表達的，讓爸爸感受到家人對他無條件的愛，無論疾病和智障折磨他什麼樣子, 無論他在那裡。 He is still our best father for ever.
是的，我比任何時候都需要堅強，需要有承擔的心。 Red， 你的對我提醒太重要。
*My reflection and thanks to Red last night*
I was tearful on the way home recalling u words, our sharing, feeling just soo supportive, warm, inspiring， soothing.... Every time in my important moment, you came in time like an angel.
Immediately I shared with my mom after dinner about how to accompanying my dad during his late moment of life.
My mom told me last year they had done insurance question in 預設醫療 ，生死權的問題in USA。媽媽決定不搶救，爸爸開始不同意，但後來被勸後也同意了。我第一次聽到媽媽講這個嚴肅的問題。我突然感到有陣陣難受，好像不想爸爸媽媽這樣離開，一種很強的attachment霎時湧現。看來，好好的面對死亡仍是我很大的issue。
My mother was so released tonight, like me , you can see the photo. She loves my father soo much, now she will express her love to my father , I will do orally, I told her your great advice.
She also suggested asking what my father wants he wants to fulfill ,to do , to eat, ....
I was soo happy to see my mom is so peaceful to share with me her deep heart voice...tonight
Today is my crucial day. I will digest your words...
The quality of life is quality of communication .
I message, yes. Compassion, understanding, tonality....
Trying to become a good daughter, mother, wife and my own coach.... whole life learning from challenges and 人生自然規律
平靜的心，愛自己, 照顧好自己，才能照顧家人, 陪伴別人。
感恩,我的生命教練，Red, 有你的陪伴，我感覺輕鬆很多，more aware of myself....
I'm very, very touched by what you wrote above. I read it this morning and it gave me a powerful start 💪🏼
THANK YOU for being a brave, humble soul, who is willing to serve and learn and grow everyday. Your family needs you. The wiser, stronger, and self-aware you are, the better you're in a position to support your family . I''m therefore extremely proud of you that you could give your mother immeasurable comfort last night 💖💖💖
I trust you have FULL strength to go through this path of facing your father's health situation with your mother. I trust you also have abundant blessings from heaven to support your father in facing his fragile life. Love, Peace, Wisdom, may all these great powers of humanity be with you 💜💚❤💛💖💝🌟✨💫
I'll always be willing to walk by your side. Add Oil ⛽⛽⛽
Sending you, your father, your mother, and your family 😘😘😘
19 9 2017
Your fully trust in me, confidence in me and support to me teaches me what a life coaching is about: it is all about empowerment! Helping people to find their own resources!
You have an ocean of love, compassion and understanding, patience, my example of being a life coach.
Every time in my important moment of life, you came in time like an angel. I don't know where is the attraction and power given me all the way.
Red,you are truly an angel of many people.
19 9 2017