Monday, February 9, 2015

Still Alice- inspiring to live in the moment

《永遠的愛麗絲》

 Movie Review  

 8-2-2015

  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZrXrZ5iiR0o
“My yesterdays are disappearing, my tomorrows are uncertain, so what do I live for? I live for each day. I live in the moment.” 

電影 “Still Alice”,  《永遠的愛麗絲〉》, 喚醒世界對身邊患有Alzheimer's disease,腦退化症朋友,家人的關注。 也展示了人性最真實,最美麗的一面,面對不可預測的困境!

主角Alice,  患有遺傳的早發性腦退化症,剛剛過了五十歲生日。事業正處于高峰,卻發現自己有時不知自己身處何方,上課不記得自己下句要講什麽,有時不記得最簡單的單字,慢慢,連自己的名字,生日也忘記了,最後自己是誰也忘掉…
電影裏, Julianne Moore has done a wonderful job. 一方面ALICE 內心世界很痛苦,但外表仍表現溫柔,和諧和堅毅。眼睛凝視一點,似是看見了什麼,但是乎什麼也看不見,看是在想著什麼,但卻想不起來。腦海空空的,看似沒有情感,其實欲哭無淚。

Julianne帶著觀衆,和主角Alice一起,一點一點,細膩的去經曆,去體驗這個身體退化過程,感受她內心的掙紮、焦慮、不安、無奈,感受給家人帶來的沖擊,變化,感受她因爲病情的反複無常,所帶來的的性情變化,有時脆弱,有時堅強,而最令人感動的是Alice家人無條件的愛,支持, 還有Alice那種面對疾病,保持心境和諧,溫柔,堅毅的態度- Gracefulness, toughness and warmth, softness...
The movie inspires people to learn to accept aging and diseases, to love ourselves, and family, old generation.

What I like it mostly is the family attitude, support and love towards Mama's awful deterioration , their caring, understanding, graceful , toughness manner, and Alice's touching speech.

看完“Still Alice”, 我對這個電影的中英文名字有了較爲清晰的理解。名字背後的真正意義:

A beautiful, smart Alice!  Whatever she becomes at last. 




人生是充滿矛盾的,而矛盾促進成長:

電影中的“爸爸”好像不斷在提醒我們,在家人心中,媽媽 Alice 不等於她的疾病,Alice仍然是我們美麗的ALICE。同樣,當我們或別人有情緒,提醒自己,我們,別人,都不等於情緒,目的是要看事物的本質,要看情緒背後的動機,看的更深,更廣,而不被情緒、表面上混亂的局面所控制,失控。

只有平靜才出智慧;大愛,就可以由心而發,不將自己打入受害者的地獄。要成爲情緒的主人。

電影和原著中一些感人的對話:

“You're so beautiful," said Alice. "I'm afraid of looking at you and not knowing who you are."

"I think that even if you don't know who I am someday, you'll still know that I love you."


"What if I see you, and I don't know that you're my daughter, and I don't know that you love me?"


"Then, I'll tell you that I do, and you'll believe me.” 


 
Lisa Genova, Still Alice

“... just because [butterflies'] lives were short didn't mean they were tragic... See, they have a beautiful life.” 

 
Lisa Genova, Still Alice


電影的高潮是ALICE 的演講:



“My yesterdays are disappearing, and my tomorrows are uncertain, so what do I live for? I live for each day. I live in the moment. Some tomorrow soon, I'll forget that I stood before you and gave this speech. But just because I'll forget it some tomorrow doesn't mean that I didn't live every second of it today. I will forget today, but that doesn't mean that today didn't matter.” 

“My yesterdays are disappearing, my tomorrows are uncertain, so what do I live for? I live for each day. I live in the moment.” 
So, just live in the moment.

"Yesterday is a history
Tomorrow is a mystery

生命短暫,也可以很美麗,就像是蝴蝶,不是悲哀。


問題出現了,不逃避,接受生命中的一切挑戰,接受生命中不可控制的事情, 總是要學會放下的,過去的光輝和幸福,仍然屬于自己,不因爲身體變化被抹殺;但抱著過去的光輝不放手,继而折磨今天的自己,影響今天的情绪和幸福。

“I used to know how the mind handled language, and I could communicate what I knew. I used to be someone who knew a lot. No one asks for my opinion or advice anymore. I miss that. I used to be curious and independent and confident. I miss being sure of things. There's no peace in being unsure of everything all the time. I miss doing everything easily. I miss being a part of what's happening. I miss feeling wanted. I miss my life and my family. I loved my life and family.” 
― Lisa GenovaStill Alice

不論昨天擁有什麽,今天失去了什麽,都可以是一種Imagination。最重要是此刻  - 活在當下。

電影讓大眾對腦退化症有清晰的了解:

早期腦退化症, 從外表看,和正常人一樣,但它就像是白蟻侵食木屋,記憶,一片一片被吞噬,最後失去所有認知力,照顧自己的能力,令人傷感。

電影不僅喚醒我對這個病的理解,也提醒我们預防的重要性。早睡早起,給大腦足夠的休息,營養和心靈上的修養,平衡,放松和寄托。 

"在全球,每4秒便有1個新確診的認知障礙症患者1。在香港,每1070歲以上的長者,有1名患上認知障礙症,至於85歲以上的長者,每3名便有1名患上此症3。隨著人口持續老化,本港的認知障礙症患者的數量將不斷飆升。2009年全港有103,433名患者,將倍增至2039年的332,688名。認知障礙症已成爲是21世紀的健康危機。"


Alice 面對的是所有人最終都要面對的,即使沒有早發性腦退化病,身體機能衰退,腦袋不靈光是遲早的事,只是下降坡度沒Alice的快,最後如果我們老而不死,也會像老人院裡那些連自己身處何方也不自知的老人一樣。
愛麗絲告訴我們要活在當下,靈魂離開我們的身體飄到臭氧層會得到修補,最後把一生都忘掉,剩下的只有愛。
https://thehousenewsbloggers.net/2015/03/18/%E5%81%9A%E4%B8%8D%E4%BA%86%E3%80%8A%E9%A3%9B%E9%B3%A5%E4%BF%A0%E3%80%8B%EF%BC%8C%E5%8F%AA%E8%83%BD%E5%AD%B8%E5%81%9A%E3%80%8A%E6%B0%B8%E9%81%A0%E7%9A%84%E6%84%9B%E9%BA%97%E7%B5%B2%E3%80%8B%EF%BC%8F/


腦退化症的主要高危因素包括:

  • 心血管疾病
  • 不良生活習慣
  • 抑鬱症
  • 肥胖或過瘦

認知障礙症病


如何预防:



http://www.yimho.com/20

REFENECE:
Julianne Moore added another gong to her collection of prestigious awards last night have beat Felicity Jones, Amy Adams, Reese Witherspoon and Rosamund Pike to the 'Best Actress in a Leading Role' BAFTA.
The flame-haired starlet was applauded for her heart-wrenching portrayal of a woman with early-onset dementia in the film Still Alice.

The 54-year-old actress has already won 17 awards for her performance and has also been nominated for an Oscar.
Based on a book of the same title, Still Alice tells the story of Alice Howland, a professor at Columbia University who develops a rare form of familial Alzheimer’s disease at the age of 50.

The film explores the implications of the disease which, in Alice’s case, has a genetic cause and carries the risk of being passed down to her children.

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Still Alice- inspiring to live in the moment


《永遠的愛麗絲》 8-2-2015


 Movie Review  
http://www.donnadreamhypnosis.com/2015/02/still-alice-not-just-movie.html

http://www.donnadreamhypnosis.com/2017/02/still-alice.html
“My yesterdays are disappearing, my tomorrows are uncertain, so what do I live for? I live for each day. I live in the moment.” 

電影 “Still Alice”,  《永遠的愛麗絲〉》, 喚醒世界對身邊患有Alzheimer's disease,腦退化症朋友,家人的關注。 也展示了人性最真實,最美麗的一面,面對不可預測的困境!

主角Alice,  患有遺傳的早發性腦退化症,剛剛過了五十歲生日。事業正處于高峰,卻發現自己有時不知自己身處何方,上課不記得自己下句要講什麽,有時不記得最簡單的單字,慢慢,連自己的名字,生日也忘記了,最後自己是誰也忘掉…
電影裏, Julianne Moore has done a wonderful job. 一方面ALICE 內心世界很痛苦,但外表仍表現溫柔,和諧和堅毅。眼睛凝視一點,似是看見了什麼,但是乎什麼也看不見,看是在想著什麼,但卻想不起來。腦海空空的,看似沒有情感,其實欲哭無淚。

Julianne帶著觀衆,和主角Alice一起,一點一點,細膩的去經曆,去體驗這個身體退化過程,感受她內心的掙紮、焦慮、不安、無奈,感受給家人帶來的沖擊,變化,感受她因爲病情的反複無常,所帶來的的性情變化,有時脆弱,有時堅強,而最令人感動的是Alice家人無條件的愛,支持, 還有Alice那種面對疾病,保持心境和諧,溫柔,堅毅的態度- Gracefulness, toughness and warmth, softness...
The movie inspires people to learn to accept aging and diseases, to love ourselves, and family, old generation.

What I like it mostly is the family attitude, support and love towards Mama's awful deterioration , their caring, understanding, graceful , toughness manner, and Alice's touching speech.

看完“Still Alice”, 我對這個電影的中英文名字有了較爲清晰的理解。名字背後的真正意義:

A beautiful, smart Alice!  Whatever she becomes at last. 





人生是充滿矛盾的,而矛盾促進成長:

電影中的“爸爸”好像不斷在提醒我們,在家人心中,媽媽 Alice 不等於她的疾病,Alice仍然是我們美麗的ALICE。同樣,當我們或別人有情緒,提醒自己,我們,別人,都不等於情緒,目的是要看事物的本質,要看情緒背後的動機,看的更深,更廣,而不被情緒、表面上混亂的局面所控制,失控。

只有平靜才出智慧;大愛,就可以由心而發,不將自己打入受害者的地獄。要成爲情緒的主人。

電影和原著中一些感人的對話:

“You're so beautiful," said Alice. "I'm afraid of looking at you and not knowing who you are."

"I think that even if you don't know who I am someday, you'll still know that I love you."


"What if I see you, and I don't know that you're my daughter, and I don't know that you love me?"


"Then, I'll tell you that I do, and you'll believe me.” 


 
Lisa Genova, Still Alice

“... just because [butterflies'] lives were short didn't mean they were tragic... See, they have a beautiful life.” 

 
Lisa Genova, Still Alice


電影的高潮是ALICE 的演講:




“My yesterdays are disappearing, and my tomorrows are uncertain, so what do I live for? I live for each day. I live in the moment. Some tomorrow soon, I'll forget that I stood before you and gave this speech. But just because I'll forget it some tomorrow doesn't mean that I didn't live every second of it today. I will forget today, but that doesn't mean that today didn't matter.” 


“My yesterdays are disappearing, my tomorrows are uncertain, so what do I live for? I live for each day. I live in the moment.” 
So, just live in the moment.

"Yesterday is a history
Tomorrow is a mystery

生命短暫,也可以很美麗,就像是蝴蝶,不是悲哀。


問題出現了,不逃避,接受生命中的一切挑戰,接受生命中不可控制的事情, 總是要學會放下的,過去的光輝和幸福,仍然屬于自己,不因爲身體變化被抹殺;但抱著過去的光輝不放手,继而折磨今天的自己,影響今天的情绪和幸福。

“I used to know how the mind handled language, and I could communicate what I knew. I used to be someone who knew a lot. No one asks for my opinion or advice anymore. I miss that. I used to be curious and independent and confident. I miss being sure of things. There's no peace in being unsure of everything all the time. I miss doing everything easily. I miss being a part of what's happening. I miss feeling wanted. I miss my life and my family. I loved my life and family.” 
― Lisa GenovaStill Alice


不論昨天擁有什麽,今天失去了什麽,都可以是一種Imagination。最重要是此刻  - 活在當下。

電影讓大眾對腦退化症有清晰的了解:
早期腦退化症從外表看,和正常人一樣,但它就像是白蟻侵食木屋,記憶,一片一片被吞噬,最後失去所有認知力,照顧自己的能力,令人傷感。

電影不僅喚醒我對這個病的理解,也提醒我们預防的重要性。早睡早起,給大腦足夠的休息,營養和心靈上的修養,平衡,放松和寄托。 

"在全球,每4秒便有1個新確診的認知障礙症患者1。在香港,每1070歲以上的長者,有1名患上認知障礙症,至於85歲以上的長者,每3名便有1名患上此症3。隨著人口持續老化,本港的認知障礙症患者的數量將不斷飆升。2009年全港有103,433名患者,將倍增至2039年的332,688名。認知障礙症已成爲是21世紀的健康危機。"

Alice 面對的是所有人最終都要面對的,即使沒有早發性腦退化病,身體機能衰退,腦袋不靈光是遲早的事,只是下降坡度沒Alice的快,最後如果我們老而不死,也會像老人院裡那些連自己身處何方也不自知的老人一樣。

愛麗絲告訴我們要活在當下,靈魂離開我們的身體飄到臭氧層會得到修補,最後把一生都忘掉,剩下的只有愛。
https://thehousenewsbloggers.net/2015/03/18/%E5%81%9A%E4%B8%8D%E4%BA%86%E3%80%8A%E9%A3%9B%E9%B3%A5%E4%BF%A0%E3%80%8B%EF%BC%8C%E5%8F%AA%E8%83%BD%E5%AD%B8%E5%81%9A%E3%80%8A%E6%B0%B8%E9%81%A0%E7%9A%84%E6%84%9B%E9%BA%97%E7%B5%B2%E3%80%8B%EF%BC%8F/

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