孩子教我的愛情觀

昨晚，我參加了侄女的婚禮，一個非常感人，溫馨又浪漫的旅程。

兩個孩子，來自不同的地方，國內，香港，來自不同的文化，大家在日本的大學相聚，一起讀書1年，一見鍾情，擦出激情。

激情，愛情不難，如何維持對對方的愛，欽慕和感情才是考驗。

兩個孩子一年後要分開，女孩子要回港繼續學業，工作，如何續缘?

他們真的在學習愛對方，學習為對方付出，學習無條件的去愛，去包容，去理解對方。這麼年輕的戀人，就可以做到，背後是什麼？是愛。

他們一邊分享，一邊留下熱淚，我和很多朋友都感動到下淚。

女孩最後決定移居日本，和她的情人，這位來自中國的男孩建立家庭，需要面的種種困難，難以想像。但， 他們勇敢的接受挑戰，沒有什麼困難不可以克服。

原來，改變自己，改變心態，什麼困難都可以manage

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The young couples successful loving story tells me that

Love is not exchanging efforts of whoever pay in order to gain love, happiness.

Love is compssion, understanding, forgiving and constantly growing up process of two couples together.

Growing up , changing, adaption, forgiving, inclusiveness not only for others but for selves.

Something I learned from yesterday wedding.

The young new couple shared their experiences of loving history, very hard, long distance love.

只有有真誠的愛，什麼困難都可以克服。

living in different places is not an obstacle.
Ka Yiu changed jobs, moving to Japan to build family, and her determination, efforts have moved his boyfriend and their supporting , inclusiveness of each other made their dream into truly a reality.

I was tearful , and so were many participants in the wedding night , when the two couples and their friends shared the touching stories ~ the loving journey of Angela and Zhendou.

Angela said, 我們走在一起，成為夫妻，最重要的因素是我們都很包容和理解對方，不斷在成長，而且永遠要成長。

proud of the two kids, so matured, understanding

I always believe our life teachers are beyond of age. Children are our best friends and coaches.

27 10 2018

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