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Saturday, November 28, 2015
A thought provoking movie!
I have been listening to your daughter dream time and time again.
First, as mother, your attitude towards dreams provide a free thinking environment: your daughter feels you would listen to her without any judgment but fully appreciation and support so that she could freely share with you. Just amazing! You create such environment that I really hope to have in every family! You are awesome mom!
Here I would like to share my reflection and interpretation:
This dream is super profound. It is like a movie, like “Inside out”, like “Inception”, Like the “Day after tomorrow,” everyone will have different feeling, views, and reflection after watching. Here is my personal learning and interpretation. Daughter will has her own interpretation. Finding time to share if possible.
She has a Huge Dream (深厚的情感和远大的夢想)in this particular multiple dreams in a dream (夢中夢). Her passion, her view to the world…
1. She thought this was a non-friction 'novel'. I couldn't agree more. AS many great psychologist say: Dreams insights are more real than reality.
Here is an article I wrote this year echoing Daughter dream insights –
Daughter’s dream is a typical thought-provoking movie!
b) Daughter 的夢匪夷所思，異想天開！这个夢令我感到每個人都有權利和意願去尋找和選擇自己的生命，自己做自己內在的父母，自己生自己出來！ How wonderful！在夢中，每一個symbol都是自己潛意識的投射，用媽媽投射自己的夢想！也就塑造了這一個偉大的造人媽媽- 就是自己！这个梦好像在提醒我们：虽然我们不能选择bio-family，但我们可以选择自己内在的家，我们想要怎样的自己，就去塑造这样一个自己！
c) Your daughter about SOUL idea is most interesting and straight forward to point out the so called present reality. People without soul have no difference
with a ghost or dead body, a vampire.
d) This reminds me of that many people get older physically but never grow up spiritually.
f) Growing old inevitable, growing up is optional!
The more we think from dreams, the more learning we get. We don't have to be limited to the dreams themselves, but fly over it. Dreams are only a sparkling point, 觸發點而已。 They provoke us to think from different angles, to see the world of ourselves inside out.
From her dream world, you can see your daughter is very special – at such young age, she has got very high critical thinking, huge imagination and creative power. You can share what you learn from her dreams focusing on appreciation, positive thinking from her dreams. I am thinking she can use her dreams to create a novel in the very near future. When I was at her age, so many stories were told to my peer group from my sleep dreams, and written in my creative writing and diaries.