Saturday, September 26, 2015

心态决定一切 The best best mindset for building a new career

Review on Workshop at IVE (25 September, 2015)
IVE 梦境探索工作坊总结 26 9 2015

The workshop was an activity for career development.

I didn't expect there was such big number of participants, over 70 people in the hall eventually.

When I was in Scotland in the the trip three weeks ago, I got the news that more than 70 students enrolled in the workshop. I was overwhelmed! I was moved and touched by the students enthusiasm in searching for themselves, their curiosity in know their soul by interpretation of their dreams and in urgency to their potential development.

And day and night after I was back on 17th September, 100% time was focused on preparation of the workshop, with hope that I could bring benefit to them, making them interesting. Many sleepless nights I worked through, brainstorming, typing and writing...

Until 24, I went to learn and test the system of computer and power point, I stayed in a workshop about life success from failure, I realized the situations, lots of students' attitude was not as positive as I expected. I was chilled at heart. The class discipline is a bit crazy at first, they just kept talking and chatting, very low attentions, to quite some extent until the speaker got angry, shouting at them. I was shocked! That was the reality? Could I do the same? But that is not my character. 

That was the real picture I needed to face the next day. 

I was a bit worried how to get through. I asked Red for help.

She gave me so much brilliant ideas and boosted my energy level! ( Youtube, more action games and games)

放下期望,尽情创造!

Right! That was the attitude of mine helped me to manage the big crowd of students yesterday!

Here was my previous grounding and self hypnosis these day!, 

明天,將和一大班IVE同學們分享我的夢境療癒的心歷路程,解夢給自己和別人帶來的轉化和解夢的方法。
我為同學們的自我探索,渴望得到潛意識的精神的力量而深深感動。

我要做的,就是totally focus out。我要記住的是我可以給別人帶來什麼benefit.

與同學們產生情感上的連接!心靈上的互動!帶來共鳴和啟示!

用自己故事,成長經歷,帶給大家心靈上一些溫暖,滋潤和力量! 让大家开始明白梦的价值。

讓我們一起:
Follow Your Heart
Follow Your Dreams

Donna's dream story starts from here:

7歲時,她發現夢境竟然幫助她解決問題,帶來不少創意的靈感,於是她開始對夢境產生極大的興趣和好

感,從此與夢结下不解之緣。最近十年,她從解自己的夢開始,不斷探索、研究,向自己的夢學習,從夢

的意義和潛意識的資源上得到無數的啟發和力量,生命上產生了重要轉化。夢,成為她生命中內在老師,

終生的好朋友。她將解夢視為修行。和夢一起成長!

Donna將自己的解夢經驗,結合心理催眠治療,總結出一套人性化,個人化解夢方法,分享出去,應用在

身心療癒工作上,搞工作坊、課程,作大量解夢個案跟進。每次幫別人解夢,也是自己的修煉。陪伴個案

一起成長。

It worked! I didn't blame the students who kept chatting, I didn't get any anger emotion but kept myself focusing on engaging audience, despite that it was quite hard when rather a big number of people chatting with intention to get the marks!

The atmosphere was quite noisy, I was able to stay calm and at peace. 

I fond it was not  easy to keep them in attention if they were very tired, absent minded, just for marks.

Magically, when I started hypnosis process, the whole atmosphere was turning into a soft, peaceful and relaxed. 

Sharing was very hard to them. Asking them to express themselves was not easy. 

What stuck me deeply was lots of them were very curious and hoped to learn, but it was spoil by the other parts who were not in it!

I looked at some faces that were very attentive, their bodies language showed they were very engaged and interested in this topic. they even wanted to share with me. That was the inspiration and motivation for me to keep going.

One student shared that he even can change his dreams if he found the dream was not in right direction or predict some bad situations ahead, he just did it opposite to correct dreams. That was amazing to hear such brilliant sharing.

Even in the very 混乱的情况下,仍有同学可以分享到这么好的经验,我真的很感动,所以我就为他们继续讲下去。

In the group discussion, some students even shared with me their sad dreams, weird dreams and shared in the whole audience about their dreams. That was a big boost for me to see they start to know Dreams Do play important rules in life, dreams, no matter nightmares or happy dreams, they are all valuable dreams!

I used INSIDE OUT as a starter, to explain our dreams are exactly the control room of our emotion. If we don't get the real meaning from our dreams, we get into the self trap. If we get the insight and do reflection, we can make our dreams more 

Here is Jenny messages about her observation:

When I drop in  some of the groups, they paid full attention.I found most of them are curious and interested. That means dream is a very good point of 切入點.

Finally, the feedback sheet from the big audience is more than 35%. Totally unexpected! That means people who were attentive really hope to learn more. 

They did wrote to me with notes, not just single words, but heartfelt thanks and suggestions.

Just amazing. Most of them were extremely sincere, positive and constructive. some of them left tel numbers for me to call them to hear their dreams and help them to learn from their dreams. I was so grateful and happy, all my effort was paid back!

Here is more details of learning from the workshop and what I need to improve:

Dear Micheal and Grace

Firstly, thank u all for your trust. Thanks Grace  u helped me soo much, esp. your encouraging the students to share, your contribution of two dreams made the workshop more interesting. You know them better so your experience was very crucial for yesterday challenging job to me. Ad u know, dream analysis is very engaging to people in my experience.
With your all help  the event was Not bad, but lots of experimental outcome and
Findings
1
What really surprised us was young people love hypnosis, My son said  they grow up in different hypnosis mediation games, music, YouTube... those are all hypnosis. So i just wonder  next time, use of much more hypnosis instead of PPT
2
More case study  : dream stories related to Love relationship  拍托, and school life, career
3
Add videos  play dream movies and YouTube programs as resources
4.
dramatize dreams, this is very interesting but challenging, psycho drama
Smaller group. if they have helpers to guide them, that us best
植萝!現場造萝現場解,should be amazing
Still brainstorming... 

Dear Jenny, 
With your all help  the event was Not bad, but lots of experimental outcome and
Findings
1
What really surprised us was young people love hypnosis, Eugene said  they grow up in different hypnosis mediation games, music, YouTube... those are all hypnosis. So i just wonder  next time, use of much more hypnosis instead of PPT
2
More case study  : dream stories related to Love relationship  拍托, and school life, career
3
play dream movies and YouTube programs as resources
4.
dramatize dreams, this is very interesting but challenging, psycho drama
Smaller group. if we have helpers to guide them, that us best
植萝!現場造萝現場解,should be amazing
Any ideas?

Some mistakes to remember:

1 Proper Music for different situations need to go on

2 Worksheet step by step need to given so that they can write down and share in their small group, two or three

3 梦伴我成长: go first, then the dream decoding process: 静心内观解梦法

What a big learning and experiment. What a big improvement in my self development. 


Dear Red,

Your advice to me was a big boost and mental psycho preparation. It is not easy to be a teacher, I found. To speak their language, get connection,  lots to .improve

Most importantly, I got firsthand experience how to make better from young group, how to connect with different kind of people, how to improve.

I was so happy to see I could stay calm, focusing on people who were really engaged despite the noise from people who just came for marks or killed the time.

Your advice that 放下期望,尽情贡献, it really worked ! I changed my expectation to adapt the reality, but I still kept a passion to make it with my heart for them. What a really unforgettable experience that I’d never had before.

More than half were very interested from their positive feedback sheet to me, they write notes to me with their heart, giving me suggestions, some of them as you suggested.

One big surprise was: Hypnosis about dream interpretation became the best of the whole process; they loved hypnosis process so much! Afterwards, they had very interesting discussions and sharing. I really enjoyed hear their voices.

It was at that time, I went into group discussions; they shared with me a couples of dreams, sad (about suicide), reflective and interesting, full of wisdom in their dreams and of course emotion problems...,  and I did one case immediately for a student in front of the audience. The student told me the insight he learnt from the process! Very lovely, brave boy!

感恩日記:
感激IVE的老師們- Micheal, Grace的信任和協助,感激Jenny 老師的再次幫助!感激Red 的指導和激勵!
昨天的在IVE的夢境探索工作坊是我生命中的一次重要學習。面對眾多學生,不同的心態下來參加這個心靈課,對我來說是一個難忘的挑戰!
我真的實踐和體驗了什麼是“放下期望,盡情貢獻”;最後我被同學們給我的Feedback,他們的收穫,感謝和建議,深深感動!要加倍謙卑和學習!
一身輕鬆!一切疲勞和辛苦的感覺都不知去了哪裡!
從中學到最重要東西的一樣是:
Just lots to improve and to practice, to adapt to the changes of situations, but one thing is always true, no matter how changeable the environment is


[9/25/2015, 20:26] Micheal Bao DP:
If you or your friend had taken some photos about tonight event, please feel free to send me, thanks once again for your coming tonight and hoping that we can have next session in my school very soon
[9/25/2015, 23:41] +852 9030 6536: 🙏🙏🙏

 My partner only shoot video on me. no.picture.
[9/25/2015, 23:47] +852 9030 6536: lots of learning. i now got lots of new ideas how to make them interested, engaged. how to improve. got 30 feedback in notes form, i was sooo happy, they did write to me, for the students they wanted to know themselves better. However, quite some coming for marks only or less interested,  not really participate, i can understand. So next time, need them leave seats, more actions, drama.
most of them loved meditation and hypnosis, amazing.🌈

[9/25/2015, 23:49] Micheal Bao DP: Looking forward for your next workshop in my campus again
[9/25/2015, 23:51] +852 9030 6536: sure, i will discuss with u, some are serious, i am interested to go into details

[9/25/2015, 23:52] Micheal Bao DP: As some students are really admiring this topic

[9/26/2015, 00:01] +852 9030 6536: awesome, let's think about it

[9/26/2015, 11:19] +852 9030 6536: did Grace take photos?

[9/26/2015, 11:20] Micheal Bao DP: Not sure, let me ask

[9/26/2015, 11:27] +852 9030 6536: it's pity, the record didn't work, no any video

 we have no record for yesterday event.

 it's my fault. i didn't know how to use it at all, but i guessed i know.

[9/26/2015, 11:28] Micheal Bao DP: Next time use iPhone to record is already good enough

[9/26/2015, 11:35] +852 9030 6536: Exactly

[9/26/2015, 11:36] +852 9030 6536: Grace was great. she helped me so.much. I wanted to thank her,
can u give me her tel

Grace feedback:

[9/27/2015, 11:10] Grace IVE: 當然有多d 人入組一定會好d,因學生如無組長的專注度會較短、因此討論時間不用太長

[9/27/2015, 11:15] Grace IVE: 這可散 播解夢 symbol 的種子、對學生們是好事

[9/27/2015, 11:18] Grace IVE: 催眠時候有講稿、可望下學生反應、再講慢少少會較好、有部分學生表示開始load到但追不到、我目測前方學生就跟到嘅

[9/27/2015, 12:45] +852 9030 6536DONNA
 明白,這次是第一次做全青年工作坊,好多啟發和修正的地方。我會好好珍惜這次的學习🙏🙏❤❤
Dear Micheal

the workshop showed me that expression of feeling, 表達感覺,感受对他們原來不是一件简单的事。But to well express feeling is the Key for dream interpretation, or we can say it is a bridge of inner communication. So through the process, it is an excellent level up 提升, jump up to reach their own heart, to talk with themselves, a good training of self reflection. This is the purposes we want to achieve via the workshops, isn't it?😀

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